blog: Thoughts on Being Human
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On The Exit Conversation That Changed the Room
What do busy restaurants and therapy rooms have in common? More than you’d think. This post explores how a high-pressure exit conversation revealed the deep human dynamics of workplace culture, and why the clearest realizations often happen just as we’re preparing to leave. It’s a look at moving from the 'dining room floor' to a space of true reflection—and realizing that 'common' doesn't always mean 'healthy.'
On Beyond Social Formalities: Healing from the Impact of Chronic Masking
For so long, I tried to make myself useful, keeping everything nice, clean, and smooth. But beneath the surface of these 'seamless' interactions was a deep sense of alienation. If you’ve spent your life masking your natural tendencies to fit a 'normal' mold, you aren't alone—and you aren't broken. Let’s talk about the impact of late-diagnosed neurodivergence and how we can finally start taking up space, from the inside out.
On The Therapist Near Me
Therapy is more than advice or coping strategies. In this post, we explore why in-person relational therapy — grounded in shared presence and real human connection — continues to offer something uniquely powerful in an increasingly digital world.
On Watching #MomTok Through a Relational Therapy Lens
Watching #MomTok through a relational therapy lens reveals how power, belonging, and conflict unfold within high-control systems. This reflection on the relational patterns in The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives explores how cultural forces shape connection, conformity, and survival—on screen and beyond.
On How Vulnerability Is Terrifying—Here’s Why You Should Try It Anyway
Vulnerability can feel like stepping off a cliff, but the fear you feel is rooted in real nervous system cues and past experiences that once kept you safe. This post from our newest team member, Elizabeth, explores why vulnerability feels so terrifying—and how small, supported steps can help you build deeper connection and emotional courage.
On Lily Allen & Opening Up Your Partnership
Lily Allen’s new album West End Girl has sparked fresh conversations about what it really takes to open a relationship with care. Consensual non-monogamy isn’t about pressure or freedom from responsibility—it’s about communication, honesty, and emotional steadiness. This piece explores the key questions couples should ask themselves before considering CNM, and how to navigate the complexities with intention.
On How to Talk About Your Feelings (Without Spontaneously Combusting)
Talking about your feelings isn’t weakness — it’s one of the bravest things you can do. Still, most of us were never taught how to do it without sounding dramatic, detached, or like we’re about to cry in a Trader Joe’s parking lot. This therapist-backed guide breaks down how to talk about your feelings with honesty, humor, and heart — so you can build stronger connections without losing your cool (or your mind) in the process.
On Essential Skills to Improve the Quality of Your Relationships
The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. In fact, humans need quality, connected relationships to be healthy and have prolonged lives…Communication is only one of many important relationship skills, not THE most important relationship skill. I want to outline a number of other vital, relationship skills that often get overlooked when we’re primarily thinking that the key to successful relationships is communication. Read on for seven additional relationship skills to help you improve the quality of your relationships.
On “Am I Too Sensitive in My Relationships?”
One question we hear a lot is “Am I too sensitive in my relationship?”…We’ve often been told we’re too sensitive which leads to feeling ashamed, lots of self-judgment, and relationship insecurities. My hope is that this article will help you better understand the strengths and challenges of being sensitive in your relationships and provide some tips for how to manage the difficult moments when you’re feeling alllll the feels.