blog: Thoughts on Being Human
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our passions, our own big feelings, our values.
We’re excited to share our humanity with you!
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On When Love Isn’t Blind: Thoughts from a Therapist on Reality TV Romance
In the world of Love Is Blind, hearts open faster than judgment can follow. While emotional vulnerability is a powerful spark, relational intimacy is built over time through repeated interactions and shared context. We’re diving into the 'hidden costs' of the pods, the importance of non-verbal attunement, and why the experiment’s search for a 'blind' love often ignores the very things that make us human.
On Beyond Social Formalities: Healing from the Impact of Chronic Masking
For so long, I tried to make myself useful, keeping everything nice, clean, and smooth. But beneath the surface of these 'seamless' interactions was a deep sense of alienation. If you’ve spent your life masking your natural tendencies to fit a 'normal' mold, you aren't alone—and you aren't broken. Let’s talk about the impact of late-diagnosed neurodivergence and how we can finally start taking up space, from the inside out.
On the Podcast: Fixing the Unfixable - We Got This (Even When I Don’t Got It)
In this episode Paul and Dani sit down in a very real, very human place: tired, grieving, a little cynical, and unsure they “got it” today. What unfolds is an honest conversation about what happens when life hands you things that can’t be fixed — persistent grief, chronic stress, old childhood loneliness, the slow drip of exhaustion.
Together, they wrestle with what it means to support clients, friends, and each other when there’s no clear solution. At the heart of the episode is a simple but powerful shift: moving from “I don’t got this” to “We got this.” It’s a conversation about borrowing hope, showing up imperfectly, and discovering that sometimes connection — not fixing — is what actually transforms the moment.
On The Therapist Near Me
Therapy is more than advice or coping strategies. In this post, we explore why in-person relational therapy — grounded in shared presence and real human connection — continues to offer something uniquely powerful in an increasingly digital world.
On Medical Trauma, Medical Gaslighting, & Doing Better in Chronic Illness Care
People with chronic illness are often harmed not only by their symptoms, but by repeated dismissal, disbelief, and medical gaslighting within the healthcare system. Drawing from both clinical work and lived experience, this piece explores medical trauma, relational injury, and how healthcare providers can show up with greater care, curiosity, and humanity.
On Moving Through the Heaviness, Together
When the world feels heavy, the urge to move faster and think bigger can intensify. This piece offers permission to slow down, attend to the nervous system, and remember that the weight we’re carrying is real—and not meant to be held alone.
On Productivity as Identity: Why Slowing Down Feels Unsafe
If resting makes you anxious and slowing down feels like failure, you’re not alone.
Many of us learned, quietly and early, that our worth was tied to how much we could do. When productivity becomes identity, slowing down can feel unsafe, even when we’re exhausted. This piece explores burnout, “formerly gifted kid” dynamics, and why you are enough without producing.
On Being Seen in the In-Between
To be known is to be loved—but being seen can feel far riskier. A reflection on non-binary identity, gender boxes, and the freedom of being witnessed without being reduced.
On the Podcast: Workplace Burnout and Mental Health: Why It’s a System Problem, Not a Personal Failure
In this episode, therapists Liam and Sarah, discuss the topic of burnout. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, they debunk the myth that burnout is an individual problem and highlight how workplace culture, unrealistic expectations, and lack of community contribute to this pervasive issue. They offer advice to mitigate burnout and explore how to reclaim your well-being in a demanding work environment.