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As therapists we hold space, we listen, we resonate.
Read our blog posts to get to know us more in our own complexity;
our passions, our own big feelings, our values.
We’re excited to share our humanity with you!
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Check out our new series, Surviving 2025, for blog posts specifically selected to help you better cope with the challenging twists and turns that this year has in store.
On Books That Shaped Me as a Therapist & Human: A Personal Reading Journey
A personal look at the books that have shaped Liam’s identity, worldview, and work as a therapist—from queer futurity to disability justice to philosophical horror. These titles reflect where he comes from, what he cares about, and how he shows up with the people he works with.
On How Vulnerability Is Terrifying—Here’s Why You Should Try It Anyway
Vulnerability can feel like stepping off a cliff, but the fear you feel is rooted in real nervous system cues and past experiences that once kept you safe. This post from our newest team member, Elizabeth, explores why vulnerability feels so terrifying—and how small, supported steps can help you build deeper connection and emotional courage.
On How to Talk About Your Feelings (Without Spontaneously Combusting)
Talking about your feelings isn’t weakness — it’s one of the bravest things you can do. Still, most of us were never taught how to do it without sounding dramatic, detached, or like we’re about to cry in a Trader Joe’s parking lot. This therapist-backed guide breaks down how to talk about your feelings with honesty, humor, and heart — so you can build stronger connections without losing your cool (or your mind) in the process.
On Sex Work & Therapy: You Deserve to Be Met Where You Are
Therapy for sex workers should be a space of safety, curiosity, and respect—not judgment. A good therapist listens without labeling, honors autonomy, and helps you explore your story without shame. Healing doesn’t mean leaving sex work; it means finding peace in your truth.
On Why Relational Therapy Matters More Than Ever
In a culture that glorifies independence and self-sufficiency, relational therapy is quiet resistance. It reminds us that healing is not a solo project but a collective one—rooted in empathy, repair, and real connection.
On How Practicing Relational Therapy Helps Therapists
Relational psychotherapy isn’t just healing for clients—it can be a lifeline for therapists, too. By centering authenticity and connection, relational therapy helps us prevent burnout, improve client outcomes, and actually enjoy the work again. Learn how practicing relationally sustains therapists and explore training opportunities with CEUs at Kindman & Co.
On The Creative’s Guide to Therapy Without Losing Your Edge
As a musician, I once feared therapy would dull the spark behind my creativity. Instead, it’s helped me turn chaos into clarity, boosting my confidence, deepening my lyrics, and strengthening my well-being. Now, I create from a grounded place—still raw and real, but no longer at the mercy of emotional overload.
On Freestyling, Vulnerability, & the Risk of Being Seen: What Hip Hop Taught Me About Therapy
One of the ways I know therapy is going well is when it starts to feel like we’re freestyling together. Not because we’re rapping (though I wouldn’t be mad about that), but because there’s a shared flow—a mutual presence and rhythm to our interaction. We’re co-creating something in real time, improvising with whatever is happening in the moment, not from a rehearsed script, polished character, or careful performance.
On Our Anti-Severance Office: Relational Therapy at Work
Our therapists come to Kindman & Co. because they want to work in an unsevered space. They seek a culture where authenticity, vulnerability, community, and connection aren’t just buzzwords—they’re practiced daily.
They understand that healing doesn’t stop at the therapy door—it’s shaped by the systems we work within, the relationships we hold, and the spaces we co-create. At Kindman & Co., we believe that when therapists are supported in being fully human, they’re better able to show up in powerful, connected ways for the people they serve.