blog: Thoughts on Being Human
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our passions, our own big feelings, our values.
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On Healing the Nervous System: Practical Strategies for Burnout, Anxiety, and Emotional Resilience
Burnout and anxiety can take a toll on both the mind and body. Learn how your nervous system responds to chronic stress and explore practical, evidence-informed ways to support regulation, resilience, and emotional well-being in everyday life.
On What Happens When You Don’t Fully Trust the System You’re Relying On?
Trust is one of the strongest foundations of effective therapy, but it's not uncommon for doubts to arise over time. Learn how changes in trust can affect your progress, when it may be time to reevaluate your therapeutic relationship, and how to build a support system that helps you heal with confidence.
On Compassion Fatigue: How to Handle Your Patients’ Fear, Disappointment, & Expectations
Compassion fatigue isn't a sign that you've stopped caring or are not doing a good job as a therapist. It's what happens when care is given continuously without enough space to recover. Learn how to recognize the warning signs, navigate the emotional challenges therapists face, and build sustainable practices that support both your clients and yourself.
On Feeling All the Feels – Now Available for Men!
At Kindman & Co., we believe healing happens in community—and that includes men and masc-identified folks reimagining what masculinity can mean. In this post, Paul shares why expanding men’s emotional capacity matters, why group therapy is so powerful, and why he’s proud to support the launch of our new group, Redefining Masculinity. If you’ve ever felt boxed in by traditional scripts of ‘how to be a man,’ this one’s for you.
On The Creative’s Guide to Therapy Without Losing Your Edge
As a musician, I once feared therapy would dull the spark behind my creativity. Instead, it’s helped me turn chaos into clarity, boosting my confidence, deepening my lyrics, and strengthening my well-being. Now, I create from a grounded place—still raw and real, but no longer at the mercy of emotional overload.
On Health Anxiety
For the next four years or so I became stiffened and afraid to do things that might compromise my body’s integrity. My mind fixated on the faintest of sensations rising in my gut, my throat, my chest… It only took a few moments of poking and examining myself to succumb to yet another panic attack. I began to feel sore in the places I’d continually examined and this only further contributed to the notion that my body was a time bomb ticking its way toward disintegration. It was utterly exhausting, but it bled into the interpersonal realm as well.
I’ve written up until now about how this impacted my mental health on an individual level but that doesn’t tell the full story and it isn’t the whole story when it comes to health anxiety. You see, after months of doctors visits and emergency room trips in the hopes of gaining clarity on what was so wrong with me, I had to face the realization that, physically at least, I wasn’t in such a dire state as I’d come to believe.
On Why Investing in Private Pay Therapy Is Really Worth It
Private pay therapy offers deeper, more personalized care, free from insurance restrictions. Investing in your mental health means lasting change and true healing. Read on for more reasons why opting to pay out-of-pocket for therapy is really worth it.
On Intentionally Avoiding
I’m not sure where the narrative began that avoidance and disconnecting from yourself is a bad thing. I mean, if all you are doing is avoiding life and you don’t even realize when you are doing it…yea that will likely result in some other life challenges. For myself, I actually really enjoy taking a break from my deeper thoughts and momentarily jumping out of my emotions. Intentional avoidance and distraction help us to move further away from a feeling that is daunting or overwhelming - knowing that we will process those feelings later
On Therapy & the Roots of Suffering
In our culture, mental health is often viewed through a narrow lens of pathology—focusing on individuals and their symptoms. Pain, disconnection, and despair are categorized into neat diagnoses—anxiety becomes a disorder, depression a chemical imbalance, burnout the result of poor self-management. These labels can provide temporary relief by naming what feels overwhelming, offering a sense of clarity about what is “wrong.” But this focus on individual symptoms is ultimately limiting, failing to acknowledge the broader social and cultural forces at play.
On Defining Toxic Masculinity & Building Modern Masculinity
I think that the pathway to creating loving men is through showing men the love, care, and open embrace of all parts of their humanity. It’s important to remember that nothing about masculinity is inherently toxic. Masculinity can be beautiful, generative, and nurturing when it isn’t strangled by sexist ideals.
On Anti-LGBTQ2S+ Legislation
At this moment a new wave of anti-LGBTQ2S+ legislation is taking place in nearly every state of the United States. These 400+ bills have an enormous and dangerous impact on a vulnerable and diverse population. Read for a non-exhaustive list of resources for LGBTQ+ folks and allies seeking support and information.
On Identity & Finding a Therapist who “Gets it”
Finding a therapist can be a daunting journey, and our initial attempt towards a safe bet might be to google “therapists that share my identities”. But is that enough? Click here for tips on how to find a like-cultured and like-minded therapist.