how to be a relational therapist:
clinical training
A CE clinical training for therapists — become more confident, more connected, and more sustained by your therapeutic work
Join us for these exciting training opportunities
We know that relational therapy works.
At its heart, relational therapy is about building strong therapeutic relationships through shared vulnerability and authenticity. Rather than leaving your values and personhood at the door, you’re encouraged to bring your whole self and what you stand for into the room. This helps clients feel more secure, deeply seen, and motivated to grow.
Too often, graduate programs train therapists to be blank slates—neutral to a fault. But in our experience, clients want to know us as people. They value mutual belonging, connection, and even the chance to care for us, too. Relational therapy embraces this mutuality, creating the conditions for true intimacy and meaningful change.
Our How to Be a Relational Therapist trainings are designed to support you in bringing this approach more fully into your work:
Level One: Build Your Relational Foundation
Learn the core tenets of relational therapy, explore practical interventions you can apply right away, and gain tools for navigating challenging moments with greater ease. You’ll leave with a relational toolkit, deeper confidence, and a supportive peer community.Level Two: Beyond the Basics
Expand your relational depth and move into more complex territory—ruptures and repairs, grief and shame, ambivalence, and unconventional interventions. Level Two is experiential at its core, giving you opportunities to practice and grow your skills in real time.
Wherever you are in your professional journey, these trainings will help you grow more authentic, resilient, and relational in your practice.
Read on for more information about each training level—we hope you’ll join us!
“I highly recommend this training to anyone who is interested in practicing more relationally! I learned more than any other training I’ve attended. My clients absolutely love it!”
how to be a relational therapist
clinical training
level one
Build Your Relational Foundation
-12 CEU hours-
Level One of How to Be a Relational Therapist is where you start laying the groundwork for a truly relational practice.
Over four modules, you’ll learn what makes this approach unique, why therapist vulnerability is essential to building trust, and how to use here-and-now awareness as a powerful intervention. Through demos, interactive theory, dyad work and small-group practice, you’ll begin to integrate relational skills into your sessions in ways that strengthen connection and deepen outcomes.
This training also creates space for you to rethink some of the assumptions you may have carried into your work. Together, we’ll challenge the myth of therapist neutrality, explore the impact of power and privilege in the therapy room, and practice showing up with your full humanity.
You’ll learn how to:
value your own vulnerability and humanity (after all, you’re a human first!)
navigate boundaries in ways that protect both you and your clients
use your own embodiment and moments of activation as essential clinical tools
understand types of conflict that arise in the therapeutic relationship and how they support deepened intimacy and connection with clients
recognize and prevent burnout before it takes hold
explore the interplay of therapist and client identities and how they influence security in the therapeutic relationship
attune to clients with greater presence and curiosity, so they feel truly seen and understood
feel more confident bringing your authentic self into the room
By the end of Level One, you’ll leave with a supportive community, practical tools you can use right away, and a stronger foundation for a sustainable, relational career.
level two
Beyond the Basics
-12 CEU hours-
Level Two of How to Be a Relational Therapist expands on your foundation and moves into the more complex, nuanced realities of relational practice.
Across four modules, you’ll dive into ruptures and repairs, grief, shame, client ambivalence, and other “sticky” moments that often test the therapeutic relationship. While we’ll ground each topic in theory, the heart of this training is experiential. You’ll learn through “YOU-play”—dyads, breakout groups, and demos—all geared to put you in the (human) therapist’s seat and let you practice directly in community.
YOU-play isn’t role-play; it’s a chance to bring your full, authentic self into practice, the same way relational work asks you to. Together with our training team of seasoned relational clinicians, you’ll strengthen both your clinical toolkit and your trust in the relational process.
We’ll explore how to:
navigate ruptures and repairs with more confidence and clarity
approach grief and shame from a relational perspective, helping clients move through withdrawal into deeper belonging
practice creative, unconventional interventions that expand what’s possible
invite political and justice-oriented conversations into the room with courage and care
set policies and boundaries that protect your humanity and serve clients well
trust the process—especially when therapy feels uncertain, stagnant, or “stuck”
integrate joy, humor, and celebration into the work to sustain both you and your clients
By the end of Level Two, you’ll walk away with more supports to better sustain you and your therapeutic work, deeper confidence in your relational stance, and a stronger community of peers who know that the mess is not a problem to fix—it’s the very heart of the work.
Meet your training team
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![Anna Kim, LCSW relational therapy trainer, smiling in blue top with pink striped background,]()
Anna Kim, lcsw
TEAM LEAD & TRAINING COORDINATOR
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![Dani Marrufo, LMFT smiling in chair in waiting room at Kindman & Co.]()
dani marrufo, lmft
CLINICAL SUPERVISOR
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![Kaitlin Kindman, LCSW smiling and holding hands with Paul Kindman, LMFT at Kindman & Co. Couple Therapist in Highland Park]()
kaitlin & paul kindman
CO-FOUNDERS OF KINDMAN & CO.
All members of our training team are part of our leadership team and actively practicing clinicians using the Relational Therapy modality. They bring extensive experience modeling self-awareness, curiosity, and professional ethics, and have served as clinical supervisors for associate clinicians and clinical interns.
Our training team holds diverse lived experiences and identities and is deeply trained in anti-racist and anti-oppressive clinical practice. As leaders within our organization, they don’t just teach these values, they actively shape and uphold them. They support clinicians in developing professional identity and building stronger, more relational therapeutic connections with clients, leading to more meaningful and effective clinical outcomes.
You can read more about the members of our training team:
Anna Kim, LCSW · Dani Marrufo, LMFT · Kaitlin Kindman, LCSW · Paul Kindman, LMFT
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CE CREDIT
Kindman & Co. (Provider #1032875) is approved by the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists to sponsor continuing education for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs, and LEPs. Kindman & Co. maintains the responsibility for the program and all its content.
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Licensed Therapists, Associate Therapists, & Graduate Students currently attending a psychotherapy program who are able to attend an in-person training in Highland Park, Los Angeles. Please note: graduate students and associate therapists are not eliglble for CEU credit.
Therapists wanting to understand relational therapy more
Therapists wanting to gain and practice relational therapy skills
Therapists wanting to build community with other therapists with shared clinical interests
Therapists wanting to increase their ability to question therapeutic norms and standards rooted in oppressive systems
Therapists wanting to find a therapeutic style that fosters more personal authenticity, sustainability, and works to combat burnout as a clinician
Therapists wanting to learn new clinical skills and interventions for working with individual clients
Please note that the training material will be primarily focused on supporting therapists working in private practice who have the flexibility of seeing clients on a long-term basis (approximately 1+ year or so). If you work in an agency setting or work more short-term with clients, you absolutely can benefit from this training, just know that it is primarily geared towards longer-term work.
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To support a cohort feel, our ideal size for these workshops is 10-14 registrants in order to provide a trauma-sensitive, containing space that better supports learning and makes room for all attendees to ask questions. Once you have submitted your registration and payment, your spot is secured and you will receive more information as the start date gets closer.
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If you need to cancel your registration for any reason, you must do one month prior to the start of the first module by sending an email to [email protected]. If you cancel by this date, you will be eligible for a full refund of any payment you’ve already made. Any cancellations after this date will only be eligible for a partial refund.
If you‘ve signed up for the bundle pricing and decide to cancel your full registration, you must cancel one month prior to the start of Level One for a full refund. If you decide to cancel only your Level Two registration, you must cancel one month prior to the start of Level Two. In this case you will be refunded the remaining amount, less the full level one price (based on your pricing tier.)
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We are dedicated to making our service offerings and trainings accessible to all who are interested. We do have a handicapped parking spot available in our private lot that can be made available to you with advance notice. Please know that depending on the size of the training, we may need to move to a larger space above our office, that does require the use of stairs. If you need any accommodations, please email us at [email protected] and we will do our very best to meet your needs!
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Level One course meets the qualifications for 9 hours of continuing education credit for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs, and LEPs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences.
Level Two course meets the qualifications for 12 hours of continuing education credit for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs, and LEPs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences.
Both courses together meet qualifications for 21 hours of continuing education credit for LMFTs, LCSWs, LPCCs, and LEPs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences.
Participants will receive a certificate of course completion in exchange for a completed evaluation form by one week following the conclusion of their training. If a participant needs another copy of their records, they may contact Kindman & Co. via email or phone at any time, using either [email protected], or our main phone line (213) 793-2990 and either our Care Coordinator, Training Coordinator, or another member of our team will get them another copy of their certificate within 48 business hours.
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Grievances shall be submitted by email and acknowledgement of receipt sent within 24 business hours. The Program Administrator will review the grievance and respond back to participant within 48 business hours.
Ways to Join Us - Invest in your Relational Practice
Choose Your Relational Therapy Adventure: Start Messy, Get Braver, or Do Both!
With multiple levels, flexible fees, payment plans, and CEU offerings, you have plenty of options for diving into a lively, supportive space where growth—and a little messiness—is celebrated.
level one
Build Your Relational Foundation — Learn the theory & practice getting messy in the room.
4 Modules • 12 CE Hours
Therapy isn’t tidy, and neither is learning it!
In this interactive cohort, we’ll lay down relational foundations while experimenting, stumbling, & laughing our way through the real mess of the work. You’ll find support for your own humanness, connection with peers who “get it,” and practical tools you can bring straight into session.
Enrollment for the Fall 2026 cohort is now open.
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Dates:
Sunday, Sept.27th, 2026 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, Oct. 18th, 2026 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, Dec. 6th, 2026 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, Jan. 24th, 2027 10:00am-1:30pm
*Qualifies for 12 CEU hours, with 2 total hours of break time. Breaks do not qualify for CEU hours.
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Level One Payment Options:
Investment Before or On 7/15/26:
$779 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $410)
Investment After 7/31/26:
$829 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $435)
Note: The installment option requires that the first installment is paid upon registration and the second will be charged after completion of the first module in Level One.
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Level One Payment Options:
Investment Before or On 7/15/26:
$729 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $385)
Investment After 7/31/26:
$779 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $410)
Note: The installment option requires that the first installment is paid upon registration and the second will be charged after completion of the first module in Level One.
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There are four reduced fee spots for available for Associate-Level clinicians & graduate students currently enrolled in therapy programs.
Investment On or Before 7/15/26: $499 (or two installments of $265)
Investment After 7/31/26: $549 (or two installments of $290)
Note: The Payment Plan option requires that the first installment is paid upon registration and the second will be charged after completion of the first module in Level One.
If interested in securing a reduced fee spot, please email [email protected]
level two
Beyond the Basics — Start to get braver, messier, & be more skilled in the therapy room.
4 Modules • 12 CE Hours
Once you’ve dipped into the mess, it’s time to lean in deeper.
In Level Two, you’ll take on the tougher stuff: complex cases, sticky dynamics, and those “oh f*@k, what do I do now?” therapy moments. Together we’ll practice getting braver and more skillful while still honoring the humanity (and humor) that makes relational therapy so alive.
Enrollment for level two requires having attended level one. If you’re interested in both levels you may want to consider signing up for our bundle option!
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Dates:
Sunday, Mar. 21st, 2027 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, Apr. 25th, 2027 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, May 23rd, 2027 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, June 27th, 2027 10:00am-1:30pm, celebration 1:30-2:30pm
*Qualifies for 12 CEU hours, with 3 hours of break/party time. Breaks do not qualify for CEU hours.
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Level Two Payment Options:
Investment On or Before 1/15/27:
$789 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $415)
Investment After 1/15/27:
$839 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $440)
Note: The installment option requires that the first installment is paid upon registration and the second will be charged after completion of the first module in Level Two.
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Level Two Payment Options:
Investment On or Before 1/15/27:
$739 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $390)
Investment After 1/15/27:
$789 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $415)
Note: The installment option requires that the first installment is paid upon registration and the second will be charged after completion of the first module in Level Two.
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There are four reduced fee spots for available for Associate-Level clinicians & graduate students currently enrolled in therapy programs.
Investment On or Before 1/15/27:
$509 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $270)
Investment After 1/15/27:
$559 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $295)
Note: The installment option requires that the first installment is paid upon registration and the second will be charged after completion of the first module in Level Two.
If interested in securing a reduced fee spot, please email [email protected]
bundle: one + two
Start messy, grow braver, & get more skilled — The whole relational therapy journey.
8 Modules • 24 CE Hours
Why stop halfway? The Bundle takes you from solid foundations to deeper dives, giving you the full shebang of messy, brave, relational learning. Across seven modules we’ll build skills, wrestle with the hard stuff, laugh at our humanness, and grow in a committed community. It’s the most supportive (& cost-effective) way to enjoy everything the training offers.
Includes all eight modules (24 CEU hours total!) Save up to $150 when compared to registering separately.
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Dates:
Level One
Sunday, Sept.27th, 2026 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, Oct. 18th, 2026 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, Dec. 6th, 2026 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, Jan. 24th, 2027 10:00am-1:30pm
Level Two
Sunday, Mar. 21st, 2027 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, Apr. 25th, 2027 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, May 23rd, 2027 10:00am-1:30pm
Sunday, June 27th, 2027 10:00am-1:30pm, celebration 1:30-2:30pm
*Qualifies for 24 CEU hours, with 5 hours of break/party time. Breaks do not qualify for CEU hours.
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Bundle Payment Options (with CEUs):
Paid On or Before 12/31/26:
$1,455 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $760)
Note: The installment option requires that the first installment is paid upon registration and the second will be charged after completion of the third module in Level One. If this date has passed, you must pay in full to secure the bundle pricing.
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Bundle Payment Options (no CEUs)
Paid On or Before 12/31/26:
$1,355 paid upon registration, (or two installments of $710)
Note: The installment option requires that the first installment is paid upon registration and the second will be charged after completion of the third module in Level One. If this date has passed, you must pay in full to secure the bundle pricing.
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There are four reduced fee spots for available for Associate-Level clinicians & graduate students currently enrolled in therapy programs.
Bundle Reduced Fee Investment :
Paid On or Before 12/31/26:
$930 paid at time of registration, (two installments of $500)
Note: The installment option requires that the first installment is paid upon registration and the second will be charged after completion of the third module in Level One. If this date has passed, you must pay in full to secure the bundle pricing.
If interested in securing a reduced fee spot, please email [email protected]