LGBTQ+ Couples Therapy in Highland Park, Los Angeles
Affirming relationship therapy for queer, trans, nonbinary, gay, lesbian, bisexual, polyamorous, and expansive partnerships.
Finding an LGBTQ couples therapist who truly understands queer relationships shouldn't be this hard.
Too often, couples therapy means educating your therapist about your identities, explaining the realities of queer relationships, or trying to make traditional relationship advice fit a relationship that was never designed to fit heteronormative expectations.
That's exhausting, and it's not what support should feel like.
At Kindman & Company, we provide LGBTQ+ couples therapy in Los Angeles for queer, trans, nonbinary, gay, lesbian, bisexual, polyamorous, CNM, and expansive partnerships.
You deserve a therapist who already understands the context of your relationship so you can focus on what actually brings you to therapy.
Whether you're:
stuck in the same arguments and communication patterns
rebuilding trust after hurt, betrayal, or rupture
navigating a gender transition, coming out, or identity shifts within your relationship
exploring polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, or relationship agreements
struggling with intimacy, sex, or emotional connection
carrying the impact of family rejection, minority stress, or systemic oppression
or simply wanting a relationship that feels more connected, secure, and fulfilling
We're here to help.
We're a queer and trans-affirming therapy practice in Highland Park, Los Angeles (90042). If you've been searching for LGBTQ+ couples therapy in Los Angeles or a queer couples therapist who understands the realities of LGBTQ+ relationships, you're in the right place.
Our queer-affirming couples therapists understand the ways that minority stress, family dynamics, identity exploration, and systemic oppression can shape relationships.
We hold space for the full complexity of your partnership with care, respect, and real understanding.
Our therapists show up as real humans with their own complex identities, lived experiences, and a shared belief that relationships deserve support, not judgment.
We're here to help you build deeper connection, stronger communication, greater authenticity, and a relationship that feels secure, resilient, and deeply fulfilling.
A free 15-minute call to help you find the right therapist for your partnership. No pressure, no commitment.
Our Team of queer Therapists in Highland Park
Dani Marrufo
LMFT
Elizabeth Taylor
AMFT
Logan Kim
AMFT, APCCLGBTQ+ relationship Therapy That Understands the Full Context of Your partnership
Queer relationships don't exist in a vacuum. Family dynamics, identity exploration, minority stress, community expectations, religious experiences, and systemic oppression can all shape how partners connect, communicate, and navigate challenges together.
That's why LGBTQ+ couples therapy isn't just about resolving conflict. It's about understanding the larger context your relationship exists within and building a partnership that feels secure, connected, and sustainable over time. We’re here to help you stay in it together for the long haul.
Whether you've been together for six months or sixteen years, therapy can help you move through challenges with greater understanding, compassion, and intention.
We help queer couples navigate:
Communication breakdowns and recurring arguments
Rebuilding trust after hurt, betrayal, or rupture
Feeling disconnected, stuck, or lonely within your relationship
Intimacy, sex, and emotional connection
Gender transitions and identity changes within relationships
Polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and relationship agreements
Interracial and intercultural differences
Family rejection, cultural pressures, and minority stress
Different needs around visibility, coming out, or community
Life transitions, commitment decisions, and future planning
Generally deepening intimacy and cultivating more enjoyment and relationship security
Our goal isn't to make your relationship look a certain way. It's to help you create a relationship that feels aligned, authentic, deeply supportive, and designed around what works for you.
Whatever you're navigating, you don't have to figure it out alone.
We'll help you move toward a relationship that feels more connected, secure, and fulfilling.
What Makes LGBTQ+ Couples Therapy Here Different
Many couples come to therapy hoping to communicate better, stop having the same arguments, or feel more connected again.
While those goals matter, we also pay attention to the patterns underneath them: what happens when conflict arises, how each partner seeks closeness and safety, and what gets in the way of feeling truly seen, understood, and connected.
Our goal isn't to help you win arguments or communicate more perfectly. It's to help you build a relationship that feels safer, more honest, and more fulfilling for everyone in it. That's why our work goes beyond communication techniques or conflict resolution strategies alone.
Our approach to LGBTQ+ relationship therapy
Our work with LGBTQ+ couples, partners, and expansive relationships is informed by the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT), a research-informed model that integrates attachment theory, neuroscience, and relationship science.
Rather than only talking about problems, we'll help you recognize relationship patterns & nervous system activation in real time and practice new ways of responding to one another with greater awareness, compassion, and connection.
Over time, many couples find that this work helps them strengthen trust, navigate conflict more effectively, and build a more secure and resilient partnership.
Want to learn more about our approach? Read more about PACT and relationship therapy →
Why lgbtq+ couples & partners choose Kindman & Co.
Relational, Not Clinical
We believe healing happens in connection. Therapy here is collaborative, human, and grounded in your real life.
Real Humans, Not Blank Slates
Our therapists show up authentically. You'll be met with presence, care, honesty, and genuine engagement.
Depth, With Room for Lightness
We make space for difficult conversations, meaningful change, humor, and joy. Relationships need all of it.
An Explicit Stance
We are an anti-oppressive, LGBTQIA2S+ affirming, and anti-racist practice that celebrates diverse identities, family structures, and relationship models.
Get connected with LGBTQ+ couples therapy that feels different.Book your free match call →
What to Expect From starting queer Couples Therapy at Kindman & co.
Finding an LGBTQ+ couples therapist who truly understands queer relationships shouldn't feel like extra work. We know how exhausting it is to “interview” therapists, only to realize they don’t truly understand your lived experience or the dynamics of your partnership. Our process is designed to protect your energy and help you find the right fit from the start.
1. A free match call
Start with a free 15–20 minute call with our Care Coordinator, Clarissa. She understands the nuances of queer and trans-affirming care and will help connect you with a relationship therapist who truly fits.
This is a no-pressure conversation to see if our practice feels right for you. If it does, we’ll guide you to the next step. If not, that’s completely okay too.
2. Intentional pairing
We don’t just match you based on availability. We thoughtfully pair you with a therapist whose personality, relational style, and lived understanding of LGBTQIA2S+ identities align with yours.
You don’t have to carry the burden of finding the right fit on your own.
If it doesn’t feel like the right fit after your first session, we’ll support you in finding a better match within our practice, so you don’t have to start your search all over again.
3. Your first session
Because we’ve done the work of matching, you don’t have to start with “Identity 101.” You won't need to explain the basics of your identities, your relationship structure, or why traditional relationship advice hasn't always fit your lives.
You can arrive as you are, ready to focus on your healing at your own pace.
You deserve care that actually fits.
We know what it’s like to walk into a therapy space and feel like you have to shrink, explain, or perform. That’s not what we’re here for.
We work with:
LGBTQ+ couples seeking deeper connection and stronger communication
Queer, trans, and nonbinary partners navigating identity exploration and transition within relationships
Polyamorous, CNM, and expansive relationship structures
Interracial, intercultural, and multi-faith partnerships
Couples rebuilding trust after hurt, betrayal, or rupture
Partners navigating intimacy, sex, and emotional connection
Relationships impacted by family rejection, minority stress, or religious trauma
Couples preparing for major life transitions, commitment decisions, or future planning
Partners who want support before challenges become crises
There's nothing wrong with your relationship for needing support.
Every relationship encounters challenges, and queer relationships often carry additional pressures that many therapists overlook. You don't have to navigate them alone.
Get paired with your best fit therapist by booking your free match call.
*What People Are Saying…
*What People Are Saying…
"Empathetic, intelligent, pragmatic, flexible and infinitely supportive. There’s no better place to help work through life’s ups and downs than Kindman & Co."
— JH
"When I think of authentic, values-driven, relational therapy I think of Kindman & Co. As a colleague, I deeply appreciate their insight and dedication to social justice, as well as how much they truly hold the fullness of what it means to be human with all of their clients."
— AH
"Kindman & Co is one of the best therapy practices on the east side of LA...all of their clinicians are supportive, knowledgeable, and incredibly welcoming. Beyond their clinical work, Kindman & Co is deeply engaged in the community, actively fighting against injustices and helping give people a voice. I highly recommend Kindman & Co to anyone in the LA or California area looking for therapy, groups, or a values-driven practice that truly cares."
— JK
lgbtq+ couple therapists Serving Northeast Los Angeles & California
We’re conveniently located in Highland Park (90042), just off Figueroa Blvd, and work with clients across Northeast LA including Eagle Rock, Glassell Park, and Cypress Park. [View on Google Maps]
If you prefer virtual sessions, we also offer therapy throughout California.
Match with an LGBTQ+ relationship therapist who fits you.
Schedule a free 15–20 minute call using our booking calendar.
This is a low-pressure place to start. You don’t have to figure this out on your own. Our Care Coordinator will listen to what you’re looking for and help match you with a therapist who understands your identities, relationships, and lived experience.
On the call, you can:
Share what’s been going on in your partnership(s) and what you’re hoping for
Ask questions and learn more about how we work
Get a feel for whether this feels like the right fit
There’s no pressure to book. If it feels aligned, we’ll move forward at your pace.
Please note: We’re only able to work with clients who are physically located in California at the time of sessions.
Not quite ready to book a call? You can text us at 213-933-9047and we’ll help you figure out next steps.
Common Questions About Starting LGBTQ+ couple Therapy
Are you located near me?
If you’re looking for an LGBTQ+ relationship therapist near you, our Highland Park, Los Angeles (90042) office is conveniently located just off Figueroa Blvd. for clients across Northeast Los Angeles, especially in Eagle Rock, Pasadena, Glassell Park, and surrounding areas.
We also offer telehealth sessions for clients anywhere in California.
Will we have to explain our identities to our therapist?
No. We match you with therapists who already understand queer, trans, and nonbinary experiences. Many of our therapists are part of the LGBTQ+ community themselves, and all are affirming, anti-oppressive, and experienced in working with LGBTQIA2S+ clients and queer relationships.
We’ll take your preferences into account during the match process.You won’t need to educate your therapist or start from “Identity 101.” You can begin where you are.
Do you work with trans and nonbinary clients?
Yes. We work with trans, nonbinary, and gender-expansive folks at all stages of their journey. Your identity will be respected, affirmed, and held with care.
Do you support expansive relationships like polyamory or CNM?
Absolutely. Our practice is committed to inclusivity and our therapists are experienced in working with polyamorous, non-monogamous, and otherwise expansive relationship structures, without pathologizing or making assumptions.
How soon can we start therapy sessions?
We know that when you're ready to start, you're ready now! Once you complete your Match Call with our Care Coordinator, we can usually move quite quickly—often getting you scheduled for your first session with your LGBTQ+ affirming therapist within the week.
What if we don't feel like the therapist is the "right fit"?
Finding the right fit matters. It’s part of our right fit commitment to you.
If after your first session it doesn’t feel like the right connection for any reason, just let our Care Coordinator know. We’ll thoughtfully rematch you with another therapist, without judgment. Your first session with them is on us, so you won’t have to start your search all over again.
Your comfort, trust, and sense of safety come first.
Not sure where to start?
Most people begin with a free match call—a short, low-pressure conversation to see how it feels.
You can also explore:
Individual LGBTQIA+ Therapy, for yourself
Group Therapy, for community-based support
Call or text us: 213-933-9047
We’re located in Highland Park, Los Angeles, with telehealth available throughout California.